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' Happy 80th Birthday! ' ![]() Photo illustration © Virginia McCorkell Updates - UPDATE -- Coni continues chemo Coni has now completed six weeks of chemotherapy treatment, so this week she had a CT scan to see how successful it has been in shrinking, or at least stopping the growth of, the cancer spots on her lungs. Based on the results of the CT scan, it appears that some of the spots have grown slightly and some have shrunk slightly, so overall there was not much change. Coni is now proceeding with a third cycle of chemotherapy. This time, the dosage will be increased, with the idea being that a smaller dose stopped the growth, so hopefully a larger dose will actually shrink the remaining cancer. We will be in Maryland through Monday, then return to Minnesota. In three weeks, Coni will come back to Maryland again. At that time, she will have another CT scan to see how effective the increased dose of chemo has been. Depending on the results of that scan, she may continue with additional chemo cycles out here, or she may switch to a different type of chemo that could be administered back in the Cities. UPDATE -- Farewell, Snowzilla
UPDATE -- Mason Taylor Henderson For those who haven't heard the news, Mason Taylor Henderson entered the world at 1:14 a.m. on Thursday morning, March 30th. He was 8 lbs., 20.5 inches long and two weeks early! He has already won our hearts over and we can't believe how we can love something so much. Ben's cousin Kim Johnson took pictures. Ben, Heather & Mason :)
UPDATE -- Moving back to Minnesota We will be almost doubling our square footage -- 2900 sq. ft. vs. 1584 sq. ft. Tim is getting his much wished for 3-car garage and I am getting my much wished for 4th (guest) bedroom. Although the lot is smaller than we were hoping for, the half-acre is quite a bit larger than our .12 acre here. And it has lots of birch and oak trees. A cross-country ski trail runs behind it and there is an out-lot behind us, so we will have close neighbors on either side of us, eventually, but none too close in the back. Currently it's the last house on the street, but there are about nine more lots beyond and across from us that will be built upon. Close neighbors, but more of a country setting. And we are fairly close to the ice arena and a brand-new elementary school. Now we have lots to do, because I had been delaying change-of-address, closing accounts and so forth until we knew our buyers here were going to remove contingencies from the sale. That has to happen by the 9th and we are confident now that will happen. Fortunately, the moving company came in with a binding estimate that was within our budget and it includes the packing. I have re-packing of boxes that are in storage, but they will pack everything else.
UPDATE -- Don's & Patty's log cabin lifestyle In reply to certain questions that have been raised concerning our lifestyle, I would like to offer up these clarifications. [When you click on a link, wait for the page to load and scroll down on its own. Use your "back" button to return to this page.] Yes, we live in a log cabin north of the Cities ... no, we can not see Canada from here. Yes, we have a fireplace in our bathroom; we also have a bathtub on our back porch. No, our house is not in a permanent state of remodeling ... scratch that, I guess it is. Yes, we have four cats and a possum ... but we used to have a 170 pound dog. Yes, I play the guitar and Patty plays the fiddle ... no, we're not very good. (yet!) Yes, we have a recipe painted on the wall above our stove ... we also have a poem painted on our stair risers. Yes, we have oil lamps ... and yes we use them ... frequently! Yes we ride motorcycles ... yes, Patty has her own. Yes we own snowmobiles ... yes, they are for sale. I forgot to put a classified ad in The Bulletin. No, you shouldn't need an elevator to get into the cabin ... but if you do, I have a skid steer. Yes, we have a memorial garden in our woods ... yes, it is lovely. Yes, we did meet through a personal ad ... and no, we couldn't be more happy. I hope this clears up any questions you may have had. Thank you. UPDATE -- Guitars, etc. Things get so crazy around here sometimes, we refer to it as... Sanity Limited Greetings to all you wonderful Bulletin readers/writers from Jack, (sometimes referred to as Capt. Jack) and Virginia (sometimes referred to as Ginny), (and sometimes referred to as Ginn), (and sometimes referred to as Ditto), (and often referred to as Honey) Adair. Also, sometime in the future you may become acquainted with {Rufus}. I'm sure at some time you've all done some something, ah, {stupid! is the word!}, and a little voice says, "Now, THAT was dumb!" That was your Rufus talking. He's (SHE'S?) obnoxious, stubborn, rude, uncivilized, insulting {and usually right!}. Rufus says all the things a kind, shy, quiet kind of guy -- like me -- {In other words, a wimp?} would never say to, or about, someone. I'm finding there are more and more people I know who are mentioned in and/or write for The Bulletin. I've had the all too brief pleasure of meeting the editor, Dorothy Anderson, in Alexandria, where one of my daughters and most of my grandchildren live. Over time, if I keep writing to The Bulletin, I'll introduce them to you all. Ginny (Bitzi) McCorkell and Ginn (mine) have very many things in common, and I'm getting to know Ginny's (Bitzi's) husband now, too. We've known Ginny's (Bitzi's) parents, Leroy and Vonnie Dake, for a good many years. We've known Betty Weiland Droel also for many years, and known her husband, Roy, quite a while, also. Betty's sister, Ruth Kitto's first (late) husband was Vernon Swanson. Vern's parents died when he was quite young, and my wife's father's parents raised him as their own, sans adoption. He became like a brother to Ginn's dad, and therefore, an "uncle" to Ginn. {Is anybody thinking of the words to the song "I am my own grandpa?"} And now I see that Ruth is asking to be added to the list of recipients of The Bulletin, also. Good taste. As Ditto (also known as Virginia) (also known as Ginny) (also known as Bitzi) has previously indicated, Ginn's (also known as ... {Cut that out!} interests, outside of the grandchildren, are sewing and quilting. She also loves gardening, but at this time of life and health, gardening is restricted. My interests are guitars, woodcarving, guitars, the computer, and guitars. Anything guitars: playing, buying, pictures, listening, knick-knacks -- I even attempted to make one once. That was semi-successful. I constructed a double-necked, solid-body guitar. It was put together and almost working, with pickups not yet installed, but put on with, yeah, duct tape! Before I had a chance to complete the project, along came the tornado of '65, and that was the end of that. (I'll save telling you the story of our part in the tornado for another bedtime.) A few years ago, I was able to purchase a REAL double-neck guitar. At one time I had a collection of nine guitars and a banjo. Over the years, through give-aways and trades, only two of the original collection remain, and they aren't in a playable condition; they just hang on the wall. At this time I have five, four of which I play frequently, plus the banjo, which I can only play three or four pieces on, and those not very well. I recently purchased an acoustic 12-string -- Ginn says that's my last guitar! I have a very nice six-string acoustic, a very nice acoustic-electric nylon string, a solid-body electric and the afore mentioned double-neck, six- and twelve-string. This delightful little instrument weighs almost 20 pounds; when I hold it on my lap, my leg goes to sleep! So I don't do much with that one. The six-string is for country and bluegrass, the 12-string is for volume and tone in the same genre, the solid-body electric is for lead on country and rock {Rock? An old bird like you?} the nylon-string is for classics and quiet ballads, and for jazz and blues ... for jazz and blues ... HEY, GINN! I NEED ANOTHER GUITAR! Ginn used to complain, "Why do you need so many guitars?" but now she has three sewing machines and can better understand that one guitar -- or sewing machine -- is not best for all projects. Well, that's about enough blathering for my first attempt at writing to The Bulletin. I expect {Hope} it will be well edited. I will occasionally send pictures of guitars, grandchildren, guitars, friends, and other interesting things. Like guitars. I'm working to learn a new photo program to make my photos more interesting, sort of "embellishing" them, a word often used in the news lately. {Used to just call them lies!} Hope you can use this one of me and Ginn (also known as ... {knock it off, will you! How about Virginia-Ginny-Ginn-Ditto-Bitzi be written as Ginny, and Virginia-Ginny-Ginn-Ditto as just Ginn?} Makes sense to me. Thanks to all who contribute to The Bulletin -- such a fascinating communication. History. Adventure. Travel. Human interest. Guitars! Good work, everybody. Capt. Jack
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I got to enjoy my birthday a little longer last weekend, with Marlene, Don, Patty, Donna R., Ingrid and Shari joining me for a meal in Maple Grove. It was great eats, even managed to keep it fairly healthy. (Don had sent their menu and the listing of calories in each item.) We had a fun visit, with lots of laughs. I always enjoy that. Thanks for coming out to celebrate with me!
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Mother's Day 2006 As the present Matriarch of the Dake family, I invite you to help us pay tribute to Amy Mellon Dake, the Mother of the Dake Family -- whether she was your mother, your grandmother, your great grandmother, your aunt, your borrowed mother, or your friend. Who Is This? Let's Play a Guessing Game: Whenever it is handy to do so we will run a picture of someone of the subscribers or staff members of our e-magazine. Tell us who you think it is -- we will let you know who was the first to guess it right -- and the correct guess -- in the following week's Bulletin. ![]() ![]() How many can you identify? Answers to last week's mystery pictures (click here to review them): Not one single reader ventured a guess at the identity of either of the people in last week's mystery pictures. Who were they? We don't have a clue. Neither does Ginny. Hope you enjoyed Ginny's April Fools joke! Better luck with this week's ladies. Extra credit if you identify the cats. $ A Long Time Ago ! Ruth (Miller) Collings, one of our father's first cousins, gave me a copy of a 12-page manuscript her father had written in 1960 of his growing up years (1890s) near Ashby, Minnesota. This is another excerpt. [Words in square brackets were added by me.] --Jerrianne On November 1, 1960, our great uncle Edward W. Miller wrote: LIFE ON THE FARM The cattle that the early settlers had were not of a very good grade and were usually referred to as scrub cattle. To improve our herd, as well as those of the neighbors, my father purchased a registered Durham [Shorthorn] heifer and bull. The bull was registered in the name of Duke. We had a pasture near the home buildings where the cows were kept in the summer, so they would be close by for milking. Another pasture, located farther away and between two lakes, was used for the other stock, including Duke. There was considerable timber in that pasture, and Father occasionally used to go there to inspect the herd to see that they were doing all right. On one of these trips he found the herd but Duke was missing, so he started to look for him. He found the bull in a clump of timber, all by himself. Duke was usually very gentle and friendly. For some unknown reason, this time, he was in an ugly mood. When Father approached, Duke let out a beller [bellow] and charged. Father just had time to dodge behind a tree and lost no time in climbing another one nearby. In time, Duke probably decided, "What's the use?" and meandered off, so Father came home. At the dinner table that evening, he told what had happened and warned me to be careful. He told me that if Duke ever charged me to climb a tree or run out into the lake. Even though Duke was usually gentle, I never trusted him. Whenever I was around where he was loose, I would have a pitchfork or a club of some kind to defend myself. A pair of colts took a delight in chasing the other animals whenever they felt like it. I recall one winter day when Duke was standing by himself near the corner of the barn where the sun was nice and warm. He was minding his own business and quietly enjoying the sunshine when one of the colts came tearing around the corner, expecting Duke to do as all the others did and scramble to get out of the way. Not Duke. He stood quietly, never making a move. The colt stopped on all four feet, immediately whirled and showed his heels. Duke waited a second, then took a step forward and, with one horn in that colt's flank, raised him off his feet. That settled then and there who was boss of the barnyard. In the spring of the year, when Duke began to shed his winter coat of hair, he had a habit of easing his head between the barb [barbed] wires of the fence and rubbing the lower part of his neck where the hair was long and thick. I suppose it itched, and the barb wire felt good. He usually managed to get the wires well loosened up and sometimes even broke them. On one of these occasions he saw the neighbor's cattle bunched up along the side of their pasture fence, across a grass meadow and plowed field. After he had broken the wire, he decided to go on through and pay them a visit. Over the meadow, where there was grass, the frost was only slightly thawed, but on the plowed ground the frost was out six or eight inches. Father asked me to go and bring Duke back home. He warned me to be careful, as he might be a little ugly. I picked up a piece of gas tubing about thirty inches long and went after him. When I got there, Duke was too busy introducing himself to his new acquaintances to pay any attention to me. I walked up behind him and took a good, firm hold of the end of his tail. He was pointed in the opposite direction from me when I let fly with my piece of gas pipe. He lit out at once and made a half circle toward home, with me on the end of his tail. I managed to get in a few whams but had to ease up, due to too much speed. As soon as we hit the plowed field and the going got tough, he slowed up, and I could get in another wham or two. That speeded him up again. This was repeated until we got to the grass meadow, where he was able to make better time. I had all I could do to hang on until we reached a creek that zigzagged back and forth, ahead of us. With the first jump, he cleared it in good shape, with me still hanging on. When the creek zigzagged back, he managed to jump it again, but not so well. But he just wasn't synchronized right the third time and landed square in the creek, with his head resting on the farther bank, and I on his back. It had been some time since I had got in a wham. This was my last chance, and I whammed away. It put him out of the creek and on his way through the fence, into his own corral, leaving me in the creek. Duke did not bother to go back through the break in the fence that he had made on his way out but hit a new spot, not stopping for the barb wire, but making a new break. He went straight to the straw pile and lay down for a rest. I did not know what to expect from my father but was relieved to see a sort of grin on his face. The only thing he said to me was, "You know that bull cost a lot of money, and you must not hurt him." I spent the balance of the day repairing the fence.
Travelogue t Greg Dake and Sonja Maness left Raleigh, North Carolina, for Shanghai, China, on January 6th and returned January 28th. It was a business trip for Greg and Sonja went along. They took extra time for sightseeing while they were there.
Sunday In Shanghai We got to the venue for the circus about 6:45 p.m.; the doors were still closed and the lights off. We walked around a bit, looking for some more substantial food, but didn't find anything we were interested in. We took a few pictures, the best of which I already posted. Then we just found a spot to sit and wait for the doors to open. Once they did, Greg bought the local equivalent of a hot dog from a snack vendor -- a small, spicy sausage on a stick, no bread.
to be continued...
Photo Editor's Note: We are serializing Sonja and Greg's web log and illustrating it with the photos they are posting, but there is far more photo material available than we will be able to fit in The Bulletin, so we also provide the links to the blog, for those who are interested: Web Log: http://sonjas-travels.blogspot.com/ Saturday would be our last day in Boston. We had decided to go to the Museum of Science. Their Star Wars: Where Science Meets Imagination exhibition would be right up Jayce's alley.
Click here for a web gallery of photos of Jayce's trip to Boston.
Vacation in Cancun J
Just Like Fargo, Only Warmer
For lunch each day we ate at the ocean-side snack bars, which were open air buildings with grills for making burgers and hot dogs. My lunch usually consisted of chips and salsa, with a hot dog or hamburger thrown in for something different. Skinny Recipes 6 This hearty soup has a wonderful flavor because the vegetables are roasted first, which caramelizes and enriches the taste. Give yourself plenty of time for preparation, but, all in all, this is a pretty easy dish. I would rate it a 2. A very hearty 2 point soup. --Don, Jr. dopaerza@netzero.net
Celebrations & Observances This Week's Birthdays More April Birthdays April Special Days Miss Hetty's Mailbox:
Dear Miss Hetty, Miss Hetty Says The indexing spider was sent on its rounds at the end of the month, so all the March issues -- and April 2 -- should now be fully searchable, along with the rest of the archives.
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Everyone! Miss Hetty + LETTERS TO THE EDITORS? Click here to review last week's Bulletin Have all a nice day, from Holland! What a fun recipe! And what an adorable possum! I'm thinking that there won't be anybody eating him come Christmas day. Loved The Bulletin. It is so amazing to me, how week after week, it's a beautiful read! Beaver and I were discussing that the other day and I've had the same conversation with others. It's marvelous for us to all stay connected and it's funny how many people have said they wished they had one for their families! A couple of my friends have commented that they know more about our family than their own! So, thank you, once again for ALL your time and effort! It is greatly appreciated by numerous people, even if all of them don't think to say so. Photo Editor's Note: Thanks for all the many photos and stories you've contributed to making each issue a beautiful read! That was nice of you to ask about my birthday, but after 82 of them, this one was not so special. I really enjoy your Bulletin, although so many I don't know. But you're doing a terrific job and it's wonderful that you have that outlet for your energy -- no one would guess you "live" in a Jazzy. Jess Cloyd CHUCKLES ![]() Photo illustration © Virginia McCorkell; photo by Sarah Steinhauer I wonder if anyone told Ben & Heather... (Mike & Levi Steinhauer, left; Amy & Murphey Dake, right.) To search a name in Who's Who or Who's Where: click on the link to open the page, then use CONTROL F on a PC or COMMAND F on a Mac. To search for a second occurrence of the name, use CONTROL G on a PC or COMMAND G on a Mac. (This works on ANY web page with text, unless the text is converted to an image. Chances are, it works in your e-mail, too.) HINT: Search by first name only, as most entries list the family name once but do not repeat the last name for each family member. In Who's Where you can search on state or city names, too. Click here for past editions in the searchable web archive
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