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![]() Photo © Jerrianne Lowther Single Tulip (Miss Kitty wants to share her pretty tulips with you.) Updates - UPDATE -- Coni stays with NIH study This past Tuesday, Coni and I flew out to Maryland again. On Wednesday morning, Coni had a CT scan that showed that the spots of cancer on her lungs have remained stable since last time out here. While we were hoping to see some shrinkage of the tumors, the doctors were encouraged that there has been no growth over the past nine weeks, and recommended that Coni proceed with two more rounds of chemo, the first of which started on Wednesday afternoon. Coni had quite a bit of fatigue during the third cycle of chemo, so she is receiving several new treatments to help prevent that from happening this time around, including an injection of Procrit, which is supposed to help her produce more red blood cells. The injection was painful, but fortunately I didn't have to give her this shot -- the nurse gets the blame this time! Coni also received a tranfusion of two units of blood, which will help her get her energy back. The doctors also prescribed iron pills as another line of defense against fatigue. I returned to Minnesota on Thursday morning, but Coni's sister Kristi flew out to Maryland on Wednesday night and will spend the rest of the week with Coni. They will come back to Minnesota on Monday morning. Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers again this week. You can send e-mails and e-cards to her here: c_waltzing@hotmail.com. UPDATE -- Diana Martin I hope and pray everything is going well for Coni, and really look forward to reading about her progress in The Bulletin. Hope you are well. Love......Diana
UPDATE -- from Heidi & Ryan
UPDATE -- signs of spring One morning we discovered a little House Finch was building a nest in our hanging planter just outside the kitchen window. There were artificial Poinsettias in it that we had planned to take down now that it was spring ... now we couldn't. They didn't care, and soon there were three little eggs in the nest. The mother was on the nest continually, only flying away when we came out the back door. We saw the father come and feed the mother. From his beak to hers. It was really quite touching how dedicated and concerned they were for their eggs and each other. Nature is so wonderful, and a perfect plan man could never improve upon.
UPDATE -- from sunny Arizona Day to Day R Jayce Hosts A New Friend: Ted E. Bear Jayce got to bring "Ted E. Bear" home for a visit from kindergarten; in fact, he had him two nights. This is Ted's new outfit, that we gave him. Ted visits each of the kindergarten children and this is his second time around. Before he heads back to class we are to write in his notebook, about what he got to do while at our house. This gives the teacher a chance to learn more about her students and them to learn more about one another and their home lives. Rather a fun concept.
Fun With Legos They've been busy building Lego things lately, so here's one of Caity's houses and the boys, Austin Schroeder (Oscar, as Dad calls him!) and Jayce's "vehicles" ... they have a good imagination and came up with some very interesting results; this is just one of many! Now here's a site that can really add to your recipe collection! Recipe Source And here's a great springtime site! The Matriarch Speaks W Mother's Day 2006 As the present Matriarch of the Dake family, I invite you to help us pay tribute to Amy Mellon Dake, the Mother of the Dake Family -- whether she was your mother, your grandmother, your great grandmother, your aunt, your borrowed mother, or your friend. Who Is This? Let's Play a Guessing Game: Whenever it is handy to do so we will run a picture of someone of the subscribers or staff members of our e-magazine. Tell us who you think it is -- we will let you know who was the first to guess it right -- and the correct guess -- in the following week's Bulletin. ![]() How many can you identify? (The more, the merrier!) Answers to last week's mystery pictures (click here to review them): My guess is Greg and Jenny Dake, Ernie and Carolyn's children. Editor's comment: You are correct and also first to answer -- Congratulations! The GUESS pictures are a puzzle to me this time. I am guessing that the girl on the right is one of Mitzi and Sheldon's girls. I am guessing that the boy is going to be a very intelligent student. That's quite a project he has there. I don't think the proud parent part of us ever diminishes. When I saw my kids' pictures pop up on Guess Who, my heart did a little jump. Pictures really do preserve the memories and refresh your heart. Those two kids (Greg Dake and Jennie Dake Horne) mean the world to me. Carolyn Miller Dake We had our first lambs of the season born this morning! A black one and a white one, born to a black ewe lamb! --LTD The Ayes Have It I was recently diagnosed as having Acute Retinal Necrosis. That means "fast death of the retina." The retina is that part of the eye that corresponds to the film in a camera. It captures the light that enters the eye through the pupil and lens. The retina in my right eye was attacked by the same virus that causes both Chicken Pox and Shingles. The virus was likely latent in some cells in my body ever since I was born with the Chicken Pox in 1955. For some unknown reason, 50 years later, my body let down its guard and the virus reactivated -- in my eye! The symptoms I first had -- mild pain, sensitivity to light, and eventually peripheral vision loss -- were thought to be from a bacterial infection. That was ruled out because the condition didn't respond to antibiotics. Then it was thought to be from an inflammatory condition called iritis, and I was put on an anti-inflammatory medication. That didn't help either. I was then referred to a retinal specialist in Fargo, who sent me directly to another specialist at the University of Minnesota in St. Paul, who has experience with this rare disease. He put me on a very expensive antiviral medication -- $2,000 a month -- and gave me an injection of the same, directly into my eyeball, with a long, shiny needle. After a week or so passed, nearly the entire retina separated from the back of my eye. It came down like a curtain over my vision. It's been likened to wallpaper coming off a wall. I was again rushed from the Fargo doctor to the University doctor in St. Paul. I had emergency surgery to "put the wallpaper back on the wall." I was awake, but relaxed, during the surgery. The doctor pumped out the vitreous gel that fills the orb of the eye (while he visited with his nurse about his upcoming family vacation in Aspen, Colorado). The vitreous had become clouded by blood and debris. As it was extracted, it was replaced with a watery liquid. The parts of the retina that had been destroyed by the virus were then removed. What remained of the retina was smoothed back into place with tiny tools while the doctor looked into my eye with a microscope. It was like he was putting the wallpaper back onto the wall. A small light was inserted into the eye so he could see what he was doing. Then a tiny laser gun was used to "tack" the retina back to the wall of the eye. Next, silicon oil was injected into the clear liquid. The oil rises in the liquid and pushes against the retina. It helps hold the retina in place until it re-attaches by healing. I needed to keep my head down most of the time for ten days, to keep the oil pushing the retina against the wall. My sight in the affected eye has been improving gradually. Some of the peripheral vision will never come back, but it now seems hopeful that I will have much of my vision restored in that eye. At some point, the silicone oil will need to be removed. I will likely be staying on the antiviral medication for six months to a year, to try to prevent necrosis in the retina of my remaining "good" eye. There is a better than 70 percent chance the good eye will not be affected. However, if it does become infected by the virus, I would expect less damage with an earlier diagnosis. I returned to work this week. Sherry has been working for me during my absence, in between shuffling me to and from the numerous eye doctor appointments. She's been doing an extraordinary job keeping up with all the extra demands this has put on her. Opening my eye one morning and seeing nothing was a bit disconcerting. Thanks to the doctors, the drug companies, and Sherry, I am hopeful of a nearly complete recovery. We'll just have to wait and see! (Yes, we do have health insurance coverage.)
Kids on wheels (1979): Kurt Larson, Jason Quick, Justin Blackstone, Penny Miller, Lori Chap, Derrick McNeill, Becky Chap, Darrin McNeill. The wheels in these photos had been around as long as I can remember, and when Mom and Dad retired and moved from the farm, and my family started living there, the kids started playing with them. Whoever wanted a ride got pulled up and down the road by the other kids. I still have the wheels and the milk can, memories that I don't want to part with. (Click here for Doug Anderson's story, "The Carriage," about these very wheels.) $ A Long Time Ago ! Ruth (Miller) Collings, one of our father's first cousins, gave me a copy of a 12-page manuscript her father had written in 1960 of his growing up years (1880s-1905) near Ashby, Minnesota. This excerpt concludes that manuscript, but it is not the end of the story. Stay tuned -- for an amazing news story and photos of his exquisite inlaid wood artistry next week. --Jerrianne On November 1, 1960, our great uncle Edward W. Miller wrote: EARLY EMPLOYMENT There were two [school] terms: first, one of three months, then a break during the coldest month, and another four month term. The school board told me that they preferred to have a man teacher because the two previous lady teachers had too much difficulty managing some of the big boys. For the first three months' term, I received $20 a month and paid my own room and board. I managed to persuade the clerk of the school board to take me in, for which I paid them $5 per month for board and room. I applied for the second term but upped my price to $25. By that time I had not only gotten well acquainted with the clerk's family but also with the Mrs.'s younger sister, whose family lived on a farm not too far away. I don't recall her name and doubt that I would know her if I saw her, but we did have some happy times together. Like most other farms, there was a barn where the farm animals were kept and the winter supply of hay was stored. Mr. _ had intended to have a sling installed to unload hay. It would be carried on a track located in the peak of the barn and would be operated by a rope, to which a team of horses was hitched. I told him that if he would furnish the necessary material, I would build the overhead track and install the equipment. I did the job on Saturdays, and by so doing, paid for my board and room. In the meantime, I got in touch with the Metropolitan Business College in Minneapolis and received an offer to teach in one of their branch schools. As soon as my country school had closed, I went to the Minneapolis school to brush up on commercial work, as I had made no use of it after leaving Fergus Falls. It was while I was in Minneapolis that an attorney from New Ulm, Minnesota, called at the school to get a young man to work in his law office and study law. Someone in the school recommended me. The lawyer said if I would come, he would make an attorney of me. I did not accept, and maybe that was one of my numerous mistakes.
Travelogue t Greg and Sonja Dake left Durham, North Carolina, for Shanghai, China, on January 6th and returned January 28th. It was a business trip for Greg and Sonja went along. They took extra time for sightseeing while they were there.
Another Taxi Adventure The taxi ride back to the hotel was interesting, as well; the driver knew the general area but not the exact location of the hotel. We got close and he started pointing around different buildings. My small bit of Mandarin finally came in handy as I could point and say, "Zai nar! Shi zai nar!" (Over there, it's over there). He was, I believe, more relieved than I to get there, as when we pulled up to the entrance he took both hands off the wheel and said something that must have meant, "Thank goodness!" This resulted in him running up onto the curb with both passenger side wheels of the cab! He looked at me, I looked at him, and we both just broke out laughing. The hotel employees waiting to help me out were laughing, and two other hotel guests outside were laughing. I seem to cause quite the humorous incidents when I venture out around here! Which reminds me of another funny incident, earlier this week. I had walked to the Carrefour and was walking back to the hotel. It was raining and I had a hotel umbrella, which probably made it hard to distinguish me as any different than anyone else on the sidewalk. One guy riding his bicycle the same way as I was walking passed me and glanced my way as he did. He did the classic double-take and just stared at me for a second, and only narrowly avoided smashing into the back of a car parked on the side of the road because of it. He managed to swerve and miss it but I don't know how. I was biting my lip not to laugh out loud at him but the other pedestrians around had no such qualms. They were all laughing loudly at him. So that's how I found out that Chinese people can blush, because the guy turned as red as the traffic light ahead of us. And that's all I have time for today, I'm meeting Greg and some of his co-workers at their office for a dinner and shopping outing in an hour or so, and I still need to get some stuff packed before I go or we'll be up all night getting things ready for Lijiang tomorrow. Plans For Next Week Thursday, January 19, 2006. Looks like we are headed to Lijiang, in the Yunnan province of China, next week, leave Saturday and return Wednesday. It's the far southwestern part of the country. Beijing and the Great Wall would be very cold and snowy; Lijiang is shirtsleeve weather. We've been advised to bring sunscreen and hats, as well as cold weather clothes for climbing Snow Mountain! Anyone who wants more info can put Lijiang into Google; I found lots of links while researching it. Here is the itinerary straight from the guide company [with Chinese characters deleted by editors] Qiangsheng Corporate Travel SHANGHAI QIANGSHENG INTERNATIONAL TRAVEL SERVICE CO., LTD. Group Memo Group Target: Routing: 2. Transportation: travel bus (Jinbei van) Air-Ticket: Round travel from Shanghai to Lijiang. 3. Sight Tickets: The first toll ticket fee (Including Yunshanping' ropeway, and the Naxi Ancient Music Concert fee. Non-including Yulong snow mountain telpher) 4. English guide: local English guide 5. Non-including meal (The guide will advise to guest) The Notice Of Travel Our Respectful Travelers: Before our traveling to the Lijiang and Dali, now let us inform you some notes you should pay attention in advance: 1. Detailed information about the Average, Maximum and Minimum Temperatures and the rainfall in Lijiang and Dali. Average Data Jan in Lijiang and Dali. Average High (F) 59/63 2. It is forbidden to carry the sharp material such as the knife and fork etc, contraband and some food with unusual smell as well as the condiment. Please carry about your valuables such as different kinds of cash, jewellery, camera and watches etc. Keep in remind that don't put these objects in the luggage for consigning. You will be responsible for it if these objects are lost or damaged in the course of consigning. 3. The guide will welcome to guest at airport with name brand. Please contact with Mr. Tan Rong-13708449145 if any urgent local questions. 4. Requisite: suntan oil, umbrella, sunglasses. The ultraviolet radiation is heavy. Photo Editor's Note: We are serializing Sonja and Greg's web log and illustrating it with the photos they are posting, but there is far more photo material available than we will be able to fit in The Bulletin, so we also provide the links to the blog, for those who are interested: Web Log: http://sonjas-travels.blogspot.com/
The Miss Kitty Letters* Miss Kitty Is Three! My birthdays just keep getting better -- just like me! Did you see those tulips? Five single tulips and lots of double tulips ... because some of them were two or three blossoms per stem. And they were lovely shades of pink and mauve. I love mauve. It sounds so ... so sophisticated -- like me! So what, if that painter James Whistler said "Mauve is just pink trying to be purple"? Mauve is an important color -- it made history! Besides, Queen Victoria thought it was elegant enough to wear to her daughter's wedding -- and so do I.
Skinny Recipes 6 Fresh off the presses! We just prepared this meal for tonight's dinner. It was fabulous! A delicious meal in under 15 minutes! Weight Watcher's = 5 points per serving. --Don and Patty dopaerza@netzero.net
Celebrations & Observances This Week's Special Days This Week's Birthdays More May Birthdays May Anniversaries May Special Days Miss Hetty's Mailbox: Dear Miss Hetty, Miss Hetty Says (Sarah Dake Steinhauer sent this lovely photo to Ginny McCorkell, who sent it on to us.)
Keep Us Posted! Please drop Miss Hetty a line and tell us who, and what, we've missed. And how about a report (photos welcome) of YOUR special celebration?
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Everyone! Miss Hetty + LETTERS TO THE EDITORS? Click here to review last week's Bulletin Shari, you just don't know what you missed by passing on the okra on your visit to see "The Little Engine that Could"! I ate it every chance I got on our recent trip to Texas. :>) (Of course it helps if you grew up eating it.) :>) Cut up, dipped in egg, then cornmeal, then fried ... can't be beat. I'll have to admit it takes a little "getting used to" to eat it boiled, though. Probably helps if you "practice" for the experience by eating raw oysters or raw eggs or something else nice and slimey. :>) However, when stewed with tomatoes and onions, the sliminess is moderated a bit. I'm wondering ... is the Don Kitto who is Ken's son the Don Kitto who lived in Laramie, Wyoming, at one time? Harold's dad and mom (Leslie and Elizabeth Printz) lived in Laramie for many years ... so we knew quite a number of people there during that time ... including a Don Kitto. Back to the housecleaning.... Carol Dake Printz
Wow! Loved The Bulletin! It just keeps on being amazing. Except reading and seeing those delicious looking recipes makes me hungry each time. :-) It was good to see Mitzi and Sheldon had such a fun trip, so glad they shared! Although that sunburn looks painful! Fun reading, from both our Loris!
Donna Anderson Johnson Ashby, MN Hi, I'm really missing the LTD stories. Markie Johnson I just finished the latest edition and boy, was it a humdinger! It doesn't surprise me that Keith and Lori ran into a troll in Big Bear Lake; that area has been a hotbed of troll activity since the 50's. The little fellow they ran into seems so compliant ... like he WANTS to be photographed! Puzzled in St. Cloud Edward Miller's School Days story reminded me so much of my grandmother. She graduated from Grinnell, Iowa, High School with a normal training degree and began teaching one room schools about 1884. by Betty Droel MoundsView, MN I can't foresee enough time other than right now to sit down to send you our thanks again for another great Bulletin. This is Sunday afternoon. I just read it over again. I love seeing the pictures on the screen as they are so clear and sharp and the colors so vivid. Not the same in printing them, but when I print The Bulletin it is easy to read over again anytime. To click on the links makes it more detailed, as there are things included that there wouldn't be room for in The Bulletin and they enhance the story. I always look forward to that first cover picture. (I suppose next week will be Miss Kitty and her third birthday cake.) Can't say that Tate and Jake have a bad dog's life, can we? We do appreciate keeping up on details of the treatments and condition of both Coni and Diana, so thanks for giving them to us as complete as you did. Our thoughts are certainly with them and their families, and you, Weston. On a very "up note," we have the fun of hearing about this lake home by Lori Chap. I am trying not to be envious by thinking of all we have to enjoy right here at home in our older years. Takes a young family to really make the most of time at the lake. Also, the Huseby's will have to be sure to update the latest events of their move. I was so shocked to see the TROLL out there in California now. That little fellow really gets around, and looks like he's got Keith and Lori wrapped right around his ugly little finger. So that's where he is ... Big Bear Lake. Well, Doug, enjoy your peace and quiet until he somehow gets a ride back here to see you. I suppose he's going to be getting lonesome for you before too long. Please let us know if you have any Troll sightings, Doug -- and we will watch for him, too. He has so many disguises that you never know it's him until you get close enough to -- well, smell. Anyone who doesn't know about the Troll can just click on this link to Doug's story. I was amazed at Rylie's coloring on the Easter basket. Looks like Virginia will have some competition to worry about. Of course Grandma Dorothy, the Matriarch and Editor has to claim some attention with her fancy, colorful basket. Let's hear it for our DOROTHY!!!!!!! Eighty years old and still enjoying every single little thing. I was so surprised and pleased to see Jim Miller's pictures with his family on "The Little Engine That Could." Actually, he should be right up here in this most beautiful spring weather. You don't need Florida this time of the year. Then maybe we could get a glimpse of him, too. I marvel at the time it took to get all those eggs colored and hidden and found and I must say that Donna Mae is one busy, happy, organized lady. Always making it interesting for her family and relations. And finding time to share it all with us in The Bulletin. I really admire you, Donna Mae, and these are the wonderful years of life when your children are so much fun, even if they are a lot of work. You even have time to look in on your Mom and Dad, and thanks for showing us the new workbench. Soon won't be room for the car in there, Don. A Long Time Ago was easy reading, and it sounds like some things Roy tells about in his very young years. Like boarding in town to be able to attend high school, etc. Edward Miller resembles Donald B. Johnson in the round face and the eyes. I wonder how many generations he was before Donald? Photo Editor's Note: Edward W. Miller was Donald B. Johnson's uncle ... and Donald has written about how he would have preferred to look like his Norwegian father when he was a youngster ... and often lamented his "round Dutchman's head"! That is such an interesting detailed diary of Greg and Sonja's travels in China. You could just picture it all, shopping. You'd have to be pretty sharp to stay ahead of the ones targeting foreigners. Good thing he took "no thanks" for a final answer. I was shocked at the size of the crew Ary Ommert is in there in the Netherlands. He said there were 25 more not on the picture. What an operation, and still he has taken time to send us pictures and stories for The Bulletin. Thank you. We are so fascinated by what's going on across the ocean, even to the tulips in bloom. OK, Mitzi and Sheldon, just go ahead and send pictures of a great vacation in that famous place. That pineapple was quite a work of art. No wonder you shared your piña colada served in it -- it was huge. Sounded like you had wonderful days, and I am sure you earned and deserved every moment of it. No bugs -- a dream!!! Sudoku -- Roy can do it, but it doesn't hold his attention like the JigZone puzzles that come every day on the computer. He is so persistant to finish even the hardest ones, and I enjoy the finished product but NOT doing them myself. No patience! I fixed some asparagus like you mentioned about the green beans, Donnie. I thought they were delicious baked in the oven like that. We don't have a grill. What a flood of memories come back, seeing that picture of the Millers and Marjorie as I turned the page. Who would have thought it would be Great Grandpa Jim in the same issue of The Bulletin? Time goes too fast and brings many changes. Once again, it was "Good To The Last Dot," and thank you for Bulletin #201 that captured our interest until the last sentence. Betty Droel CHUCKLES ![]() Photo illustration © Virginia McCorkell To search a name in Who's Who or Who's Where: click on the link to open the page, then use CONTROL F on a PC or COMMAND F on a Mac. To search for a second occurrence of the name, use CONTROL G on a PC or COMMAND G on a Mac. (This works on ANY web page with text, unless the text is converted to an image. Chances are, it works in your e-mail, too.) HINT: Search by first name only, as most entries list the family name once but do not repeat the last name for each family member. In Who's Where you can search on state or city names, too. Click here for past editions in the searchable web archive
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