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Updates - UPDATE -- Coni buys a wedding dress Coni returned from her latest chemotherapy cycle in Maryland on Monday and received her dreaded Neulasta injection that night. Fortunately, the side effects of the chemo and the Neulasta did not last very long this week. The treatments she has been receiving to fight off the fatigue and other side effects she had in previous cycles really seem to be having an effect. Yesterday her blood tests showed that her red blood cell count was the highest it has been in many weeks, which is probably a result of the Procrit injections she has received during the last two chemo cycles. After a tough day on Tuesday, she had already recovered enough to go shopping for wedding dresses with her friend Melissa on Wednesday. She found one she liked, so on Thursday she brought her mom and sister to the dress shop for a second opinion. They both approved, so she bought the dress, which is now hanging in a bag in her closet. She told me I can't look at it until the wedding day, so until then it will just hang there and taunt me. I am also not to look at the pictures she has on her camera phone, as they include pictures of her modeling the dress. This is the equivalent of telling a child you bought him a wonderful Christmas present, and that it's sitting unwrapped in the upstairs hall closet -- BUT DON'T GO LOOKING AT IT! OK, I'll try not to. Wouldn't want to ruin the surprise! This weekend we plan to head to Osakis and Ashby. We have a full day on Saturday: looking at reception halls, meeting with a florist, meeting with Coni's priest, then attending a birthday party for two of Coni's nephews. Other than that, our weekend plans are pretty much open, so we will try and enjoy the hot weather we're supposed to be getting! Please keep Coni in your thoughts and prayers again this week. You can send e-mails and e-cards to her here: c_waltzing@hotmail.com.
UPDATE -- Weather report: showers all weekend... When I first arrived, Shirley gave me a beautiful rose as a token of their love. A very touching sentiment and it's in full bloom now! In attendance were many of Shawn's family, who came from near and far, as well as some of the ladies from the neighborhood, my maid and matron of honor, Caity, my mom and Jayce. Tammy and Chassidi coordinated some fun shower games, including a questionnaire about Shawn (on which I only got 1-1/2 wrong!) and then I opened fabulous gifts and we had a yummy lunch with fresh fruit, salad, rolls, chips and a marvelous strawberry dessert. A special thanks to Shirley for hosting such a great shower and to Tammy and Chassidi for their efforts, as well. I have included pictures of me taken with Shirley, Chassidi, Tammy and also my Maid of Honor, Amy Johnson; Matron of Honor, Kristin Nordling, and Caity.
On Sunday, my "Chap Aunts" threw me a lively and fun shower complete with the infamous Chap Dice Game (which landed Jayce a fun garden frog and me some wonderful soap!), food beyond belief (my friends now know where I get the potluck mentality -- I'm doomed on both sides of the family!), a stunning white rose corsage and again an abundance of fabulous gifts. Shawn was amazed at all the Crate and Barrel boxes accumulated from two short days! :-) In attendance were all of my aunts, many of my cousins, including my youngest cousin, Tess, who is soon to turn 4 years old (I am the oldest and she is the youngest -- quite the span, eh?), my personal attendants, Sarah Speer and Patricia Johnsen, my maid and matron of honor, Shirley, my mom, Caity and Jayce! (By the way, Jayce was sure a good sport this past weekend. For a 7-year-old boy, I'm sure this was not the most fun thing for him to do, but he was so well-behaved and great the whole weekend. Thank you Jayce -- I love you, buddy!) A special thanks to my Aunt Nancy (and Godmother) for hosting the shower at her house (and providing nut-and-raisin-free carrot cake -- yum!) and to my Aunts Mary Lou, Linda, Kathy, and Carrie for putting together such a wonderful spread of food and love! More thanks to my mom, Shirley, Caity, Amy and Kristin for attending more than their fair share of showers on my behalf (oh, and Jayce, too!) and for those driving long distances. If Shawn and I have a turnout for our wedding as good as my showers, we are sure to have a fun and lively group! Much love, Lori
UPDATE -- late May, Breezy Point
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On Wednesday, Beaver and I took five little daycare children and went into the school to attend Jayce's graduation. Becky and five friends and Caity were also in attendance for him. He said he was "embarrassed" because so many people were watching him ... but he managed a huge grin, so we know he was more than happy to have several people there to watch him "graduate."
He's got RHYTHM! On Thursday, Jayce and little Katie Hoffman and I took Beaver to Fargo for his cardio conversion. The kids got headphones, graham crackers and juice from one of the attendants. (I'd also brought along toys and munchies.) They kept entertained while Beaver was being attended to. After the heart had been shocked back into normal rhythm, we were able to go back and visit him during the time they waited to make sure it was all A.O.K. Jayce and Katie were very impressed with the "turkey balloons" that the nurse made for them.
The Matriarch Speaks W Who Is This? Let's Play a Guessing Game: Whenever it is handy to do so we will run a picture of someone of the subscribers or staff members of our e-magazine. Tell us who you think it is -- we will let you know who was the first to guess it right -- and the correct guess -- in the following week's Bulletin. ![]() How many can you identify? Answers to last week's mystery pictures (click here to review them): Hmmmmm ... I don't think I've seen this picture before. It is my Dad and Mom, Bill (Billie) and Lois Dake with my brothers Stan (Bill) and James and sister Kathleen. I may have already been away in nursing school ... and it would have been taken sometime after Dad had his cancer surgery ... as you can tell from the appearance of the right side of his jaw. But I can't tell if Patricia was born yet or not ... since Mother is hidden behind Kathleen! So it must have been taken sometime 1964-66. I don't recognize the location. Carol Dake Printz Just read this week's Bulletin and found myself looking at me again, but at a MUCH younger age. The mystery picture is of my family (Bill and Lois Dake, Kathleen, Stanley, James), taken after a 5th Sunday meeting in Waco. Is the GUESS picture the Bill Dakes from Texas? The Bill Dake family before Patricia was born ... all but Carol (Bill, Lois, Stanley and in the front Kathleen and James). Dad [LeRoy Dake] said their car broke down on their way up here and he went down to get them. Virginia Dake McCorkell Uncle Billy, Aunt Lois, Stan, Kathleen and James ... love these old pictures -- they bring back lots of fun memories ... even the background items are interesting ... cars, houses etc. Thanks to the editors for all their hard work every week! I need to take a break from my weekly chronological series of articles. I do hope to be back with them after a season. --LTD
Travelogue t Greg and Sonja Dake left Durham, North Carolina, for Shanghai, China, on January 6th and returned January 28th. It was a business trip for Greg and Sonja went along. They took extra time for sightseeing while they were there.
Traveling to Yunnan Province After returning to Lijiang from Tiger Leaping Gorge, the driver and guide took us to our hotel for the night. Our one worry about the trip was what kind of accommodations we'd have. The outside of the place didn't look so bad, so we were hopeful. Got checked in, were given our key-card, and had our luggage delivered to our room. We were on the fourth floor. The first thing we noticed on entering the room was it was pretty small, but not cramped. The second thing we noticed was that it was freezing cold in the room. As soon as the bellboy left, we turned the heat on. The thermostat was turned off; we figured that was why it was cold. About 10 minutes later, there was a knock at the door. A hotel employee was there with a space heater that she brought into the room, plugged in and set, and had Greg sign for. She turned off the thermostat on the wall, too. Then she gave us a remote control for it and left. We looked at each other like, "What the heck was that about?" Another 10 minutes later, the phone rang. Greg picked it up and talked a minute, then hung up. He said it was the front desk asking if our heater had been delivered and was it working. The front desk person told him the heat was broken on our floor, thus the space heater being brought to us. We decided to go eat in one of the hotel restaurants. (They had two, a Chinese restaurant, and a Western restaurant, we had been told on check-in.) We went to the Western restaurant, only to find out it was Western Chinese cuisine, not Western hemisphere cuisine. That was okay with us; we were hungry and tired and Greg had eaten at a cafeteria with co-workers enough that he could figure out what to order. I guess here is a good place to recount the way most Chinese meals are eaten. I mentioned that we ate at the restaurant in Shanghai at a big round table with a revolving glass "lazy susan" in the middle. That's the typical way meals are served. Dishes are brought out one at a time, along with a big bowl of rice. Each place setting has a tea cup, a small plate, a small soup bowl, a soup spoon that looks more like a miniature ladle than a Western spoon, and a set of chopsticks. You get tea in your cup, soup in your bowl, then use your chopsticks to pick up bites of food out of the plates in the middle of the table. You never really serve yourself onto the small plate, you eat out of the serving bowls. You might get some rice on your plate then put a few bites of a dish on that and mix it together, but it seems that generally you eat out of the serving dishes. That is how the table was set up at the hotel restaurant. We went in and sat down, to the entertainment of the large party of Chinese people who were also eating there. It appeared to be a family group, as there were people there of all ages, from toddlers to senior citizens. The first 10 minutes we were in the room, I don't think any of them took a single bite of food; they were too busy staring at us. They watched as we looked over the menu and told the waitress what we wanted to eat. Finally they went back to their meal and eating and talking, as they had before we walked in. A few minutes later the waitress came back to say that two of the three dishes we ordered were already gone for the day. So we chose two more. Then she came back and said one of those two was out, also. So we chose one more. Then she came back and asked if we wanted something different because we had ordered one soup and one dish that was a lot like soup, as well. We said okay. We ended up with a braised meat dish that she brought out on a plate with a metal grate, with alcohol under the grate that she lit with a lighter. The meat and veggies were very good but we didn't have rice with them yet. We also got chicken soup, which looked to be nothing more than a whole chicken stewed in a pot, with a few veggies floating in. There was a preserved ham dish with lots of red peppers (not bell peppers, those little dark red Oriental peppers that pack a wallop). The ham was good but we left the peppers alone! All in all, it was a decent meal, different but good. I learned a lot more about chopstick skills at that meal, too, as there were no forks offered. When we'd finished our meal and paid the check, we got up to leave. Once again the dinner party beside us went silent and everyone stared at us. I was amused at this, and as we walked past them to the exit just smiled and nodded at them in general. I thought later I should have said "Zijian!" [Goodbye] to them as I went; too bad I didn't think of it at the time! Back to the fourth floor, to discover as we stepped out of the elevator, the windows at the ends of the halls were all opened about six inches. We closed the one by the elevator and went to our room. Walking in, it was still freezing cold inside, even though the space heater had been running while we were at dinner. I had a thought and went to look at the window. Sure enough, behind the curtains, the window was open six inches or so. Grrrr! I closed it and pulled the curtains as tight as possible. The next wonderful discovery was the beds. They were about as soft as plywood covered with thin scratchy linens. Each bed (full size, supposedly, but not full size for Americans) had a thick duvet so we ended up taking one duvet to sleep on, on top of the sheet, and covering up with the other for the night. We still never really got warm, though. The bathroom was tiny, and didn't even have a door on the shower. It was just one pane of glass in the floor and a drain, and some non-slip panels on the floor. The shower floor was the same material as the rest of the bathroom floor. There was a sign on the wall behind the toilet: "Caution -- wet floor." No kidding! Whenever you used the shower the floor was an inch deep in water for the whole bathroom. There was no bathtub, and only a small sink vanity. There was a sign over the hair dryer that said, "If you use it beyond continous 12 minute you must to pay for your careless." There was, of course, no internet access available. Which was fine by us, as we were exhausted from the plane rides, twisty van ride, and hiking back down the mountain from the gorge. In spite of the small, hard bed we were asleep pretty fast. to be continued Photo Editor's Note: We are serializing Sonja and Greg's web log and illustrating it with the photos they are posting, but there is far more photo material available than we will be able to fit in The Bulletin, so we also provide the links to the blog, for those who are interested: Web Log: http://sonjas-travels.blogspot.com/ o In Service To Our Nation j Leslie Benson Leslie Benson enlisted in the Army Air Corps, which later became the US Air Force, on November 5, l947. His basic training was at Lackland Air Force Base (AFB), San Antonio, Texas.
SSG Brian H. Lehtola I Joined the Minnesota National Guard 15 Aug 85, age 17 yrs. My mother had to sign for me because I was not of legal age. On 10 Mar 88, I joined active Army and was in until 9 Mar 92. The day after I was released from active duty I re-joined the Guard. TOURS OF DUTY: Operation Desert Shield/Storm, (Saudi Arabia & Iraq 90-91) Awards and Decorations: 2 Army Commendation Medals
Skinny Recipes 6 I have been working full time and in my spare time I am trying to complete the stone retaining wall I've been building, among other projects we have been working on. I don't have any recipes to share right now, but I hope to do some more soon. (We have been cooking previous recipes for the second time around lately.) I hope to search out some more prospects for future use. I will submit them as soon as I give them a test run and take the picture. I think I will concentrate on simpler, more mainstream recipes, so maybe somebody will dare to give them a shot. People don't seem to want to get too daring when it comes to cooking. The people at our Weight Watchers meeting seem to want food that comes right out of a package, ready to eat. So we will perhaps try going a different direction with this. For now, at least until next winter, my contributions will probably not be as regular as they were. Donnie Anderson Photo Editor's Note: Building a stone wall is hard work. This situation calls for Stone Soup! Click here for a story about Stone Soup. Click here for another version of the story and a recipe for Stone Soup.
Celebrations & Observances This Week's Special Days This Week's Birthdays This Week's Anniversaries More June Birthdays More June Anniversaries June Special Days Miss Hetty's Mailbox: Dear Miss Hetty, Here's a picture of Dwight's birthday. With a cherry chip cake, of course! Elaine, DeLoris, Muriel and Meryl, Melanie and Eric, and Brenda, Nathan, Jazmine, and Jonathan helped him celebrate for the evening. Dwight and Janie Anderson
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Everyone! Miss Hetty + LETTERS TO THE EDITORS? Click here to review last week's Bulletin I just wanted to tell you what a wonderful Bulletin you put together in honor of Aunt Amy. Wonderful! And, the pictures were priceless. I cannot possibly save every edition, but that one is definitely a saver. She certainly touched many lives and hearts. Hope this finds you and yours well. Hello to all. Love......Diana The Tribute to Amy sure was a nice idea. I sure enjoyed reading everyone's little story. I don't recall the "BARS" and wonder what the recipe really was. Mavis Anderson Morgan Looks like you and Don had a wonderful Mother's Day. You look real good and healthy, too. Been a while since I've seen any pictures of Don and you. Hope all is going well. It looks, too, like your move there has been good for you two. Your Bulletin seems to just keep on growing. Bet you never thought it would take off like this. It was so good to see the photo-funny from Doug again. I have missed seeing his contribution to The Bulletin. It's so nice to see photos of the little ones, since they grow and change so fast! Our group here had a farewell potluck supper for Mike and Sarah and little Levi last week. We will miss them but wish them the best in their move to Northern Minnesota. Little Levi has been termed "the Gerber Baby" by someone here, so you know how cute he is.! Elaine Anderson Wold
I'm wondering if I could put an "ad" in The Bulletin. by Betty Droel MoundsView, MN How can the weeks go by so fast? I wrote Bulletin #204, but it really is #205 already! That first picture on page one was a spectacular view of our graduating Ryan. What a picture of the graduate in front of the pillars! It was very impressive, to say the least. Quite an angle, and it was arranged and sized just perfectly to the best advantage. Thanks to the photographer [Ryan's brother, Brandon Hellevang], it is a photo Ryan will value for all his years. Our son Darrel and Johanna from Virginia/ Washington, DC, are coming for over Memorial Day and we are going to be very busy putting out the welcome mat in readiness for their short time with us. Betty Droel
CHUCKLES ![]() Photo illustration © Douglas A. Anderson Doug considers making up his mind about the drums. To search a name in Who's Who or Who's Where: click on the link to open the page, then use CONTROL F on a PC or COMMAND F on a Mac. To search for a second occurrence of the name, use CONTROL G on a PC or COMMAND G on a Mac. (This works on ANY web page with text, unless the text is converted to an image. Chances are, it works in your e-mail, too.) HINT: Search by first name only, as most entries list the family name once but do not repeat the last name for each family member. In Who's Where you can search on state or city names, too. Click here for past editions in the searchable web archive
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